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400: Religious Deconstruction: Finding Meaning in the Existential Void After Faith with Britt Hartley

By May 5, 2025No Comments

Are we discovering meaning that’s already built into reality, or are we just making it up as we go in a universe that couldn’t care less?

Last week we dove into the wild possibility that our reality might actually be a simulation. Today we’re tackling something just as mind-blowing – what happens when you tear down religious beliefs and have to build something new from scratch?

I grew up with Christianity giving me all the answers. Heaven, hell, God watching everything – the whole package. Then I started asking questions nobody could answer, and my entire belief system crumbled. That’s terrifying. You’re standing in this void where nothing makes sense anymore, and you have to figure it all out yourself.

What nobody tells you about spiritual deconstruction is that the void isn’t just intellectual – it’s emotional, social, even physical. Your entire identity gets ripped apart. The community that once supported you becomes foreign territory. The certainty that grounded you vanishes. For me, that process was both devastating and ultimately liberating.

My guest today is Britt. She went from Mormon true believer to theology scholar and landed at atheism. But here’s the twist – she didn’t throw spirituality out with religion. She built a secular approach that captures the good stuff without requiring you to believe in anything supernatural.

We’re diving into territory most spiritual podcasts won’t touch – that messy space between blind faith and total emptiness. No sugar-coating, no spiritual bypassing. Just real talk about free will, consciousness, quantum weirdness, and what the hell you do when everything you once believed turns out to be someone else’s story.

We Will Learn

  • Why humans create meaning in fundamentally similar ways regardless of their cosmic beliefs

  • How suffering can be both brutal reality and catalyst for transformation

  • The unexpected freedom that comes from separating your identity from your beliefs

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