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Why ‘Let It Go’ Is Actually Bad Advice | Cynthia Abulafia• 468 HappinessPodcast
September 1, 2026

Why ‘Let It Go’ Is Actually Bad Advice | Cynthia Abulafia• 468

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How to Actually Want Sex Again | Kayna Cassard• 462 HappinessHealthMind SciencePodcast
July 14, 2026

How to Actually Want Sex Again | Kayna Cassard• 462

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Why You Struggle to Find Deep Connection | Michael Trainer • 455 HappinessMind ScienceMindsetPodcast
May 26, 2026

Why You Struggle to Find Deep Connection | Michael Trainer • 455

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Stop Being “Chill” on Dating Apps: Why You Must Be Ruthless | Jennie Young • 448 HappinessMind ScienceMindsetPodcast
April 7, 2026

Stop Being “Chill” on Dating Apps: Why You Must Be Ruthless | Jennie Young • 448

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Why Your Help Fails Without The Science of Attunement | Nidhi Tewari, LCSW • 443 HappinessMindfulnessMindsetPodcast
March 3, 2026

Why Your Help Fails Without The Science of Attunement | Nidhi Tewari, LCSW • 443

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Stop Diagnosing Your Partner: Why Therapy Speak Is Backfiring | Isabelle Morley • 437 HappinessMind Body SoulPodcast
January 20, 2026

Stop Diagnosing Your Partner: Why Therapy Speak Is Backfiring | Isabelle Morley • 437

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Creativity Isn’t Like Magic—It Literally Is Magic | Pam Grossman• 436 HappinessMind Body SoulPodcast
January 12, 2026

Creativity Isn’t Like Magic—It Literally Is Magic | Pam Grossman• 436

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